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THE NEW MEXICAN Santa Fe, N.M., Sunday, May 29, 1988 Fifteen Club closes in on 100th anniversary in Santa Fe The Fifteen Club entertained guests at luncheon Friday at the Sheraton followed by a program on "Early Women of Santa Fe" which was the topic for study by the members this year. Marian Meyer of the topic committee was speaker. She, along with Ouida Reiland and Millicent Reynolds formed the topic committee, in charge of luncheon arrangements. Named for the number of its members, Nina and Charles their family home for with a highlight of christening of their daughters at the Holy Faith on June '5. a gathering at the The children, Caitlyn, have aged respectively the history of the Fifteen Club dates back invited guests to the Santuario de Guacoming with their to 1891, which makes its centennial just dalupe on June 11 to attend the wedding of Barbara Thompson three years ahead.

It further makes the their daughter, Carmen Loretta, to PaGodparents will be of continu- Zeeman and her club a record-breaker. in terms trick Harrison Kelly. A reception in the women's Zeeman who will ous meetings among organiza- garden at the home of Patrick's parents, from Biddeford, tions. Mr. and Mrs.

Booker Kelly, will follow. The speaker mentioned such founders as Both Carmen and Patrick grew up in attending the rites at Matilda Van Soelen and Mary Prince, Allison, Florence Santa Fe. She later graduated from Loretto Barbara Hughes, Laura Brooks Marsh and Esth- Heights College in Denver and moved to Thompson's er Thomas. The imprint left on the city by Albuquerque to study physical therapy at such other early women as Berta Van the University of New Mexico. Patrick is Nancy Quintana Stone, Bertha Staab Nordhaus, Ellen now a graphic artist in Albuquerque after honoree for 1988 by Palen, Clara Stauffer Walter, Blanche completing his studies at the Graphic of the American Boyle and others also was part of her Institute af Design in Denver.

Women, according report. which reports the Mr. and Mrs. Samuel M. Romero have Clothing prices cause sticker shock Continued from Page C-1 firm that represents the Exporters and Importers.

So. will the stores. "There's Bernard Ozer, vice Merchandising a' organization in New York specialty stores. "When a more." American Association of no secret about it," said president of the Associated marketing and merchandising for department and store pays more, it charges Some think that is not the whole story. "I'm not sure apparel producers have raised their prices as much as retailers have raised their prices," said Emanuel Weintraub, president of Emanuel Weintraub Associates, a management consulting firm in Fort Lee, N.J.

Calla Hay Paso por aqui Monroe Greenstein, an analyst for the securities firm of Bear, Stearns Co. in New York, agreed: Women no longer ashamed to apply makeup in public By ANDREA HIGBIE N.Y. Times News Service NEW YORK Mascara wands in hand, women increasingly are puncturing the rules of etiquette by applying makeup en route to jobs and appointments. No form of transportation seems to be exempt, no place too public, say observers of social behavior. "I've seen it on the bus, at a desk, at a luncheon table, at a business dinner," said Joyce Grillo, who owns Impression Management, a corporate-image consulting company in' Manhattan.

Letitia Baldrige, an authority on etiquette, agreed that among women, grooming has gone public. "It's all part of the terrible pressure we're under," she said. "People used to have simple lives. Now they're shoving more into their days. And they're much more careless about what they're doing in public." Performing such private acts in public places was once socially unacceptable.

Today, it is often unavoidable, women say. "Women have many more things to deal with at home besides putting on makeup," said Laurena G. White, who puts on her makeup while commuting to Manhattan from Montclair, N.J. a 40-year-old director of marketing and technology at New York Telephone who attends weekend graduate school classes, has made up her face. on DeCamp buses, Erie Lackawanna Railway cars, PATH trains and New York City subway trains, and occasionally while her car idles in traffic.

She added that she never used to see women grooming themselves on the run, but now "it's becoming commonplace." Others said they have seen many more. women in recent months grooming themselves in public. "If you can eat on the street, you can certainly brush your hair on the street," said: Susan Gaynes, 31, who lives on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. "I do. And I think nothing of putting on lipstick in the street either." "It's absolutely a function of time," said Gaynes, who has a 1- year-old son.

"It's not tacky enough that if you really need to do it, it's wrong. MILESTONES ES Perea-Welch Oliver and Yvonne Perea of Cerrillos announce the engagement of their daughter, Diane Louise, to Ronald William Welch, a son of Phyllis Welch of Topeka, Kansas. The couple plans a June 25 wedding at St. Joseph's Church in Cerrillos. Miss Perea graduated from Santa Fe Vocational Technical School and is employed as a teller at Western Bank in Albuquerque: Mr.

Welch is a graduate of Kansas State University where he received a degree in marketing. He employed as assistant manager at Furrow Building Material in Albuquerque. Grillo, whose clients include Citi- Is there, in bank and Equitable Insurance, and social norm which Baldrige disdain the behavior, none- is something theless. Grillo said that when a proper, about a woman beautifies herself in public, ment between a it hurts her professional and person- woman of 39 or, al image. sit only correct "The kind of message you send "date" women out and you don't know who years of his age? you'll run into is that you are not ladies who choose organized and that you're rushed suffer even more and running late," she said.

implied criticism. Both Baldrige and Grillo suggest- rationale for this? ed that women could just wake up Dear Reader: earlier in the morning. bly a great many "You can work it into your psychology has routine," Grillo said. "It takes five erything. The minutes." your older For some, however, the best 5, or could range 35, minutes are those between when the next home and the office.

L. Judith understand their Carroll, 40, the marketing director jokes, to the at Home Box Office in Manhattan, are not as likely said there was "very little time to with the young get myself organized." So she are. The young applies her makeup on the bus could also be going to work. Dawn Mann, 32, the sense of competition. director of legal affairs for Tri-Star None of this Pictures in Manhattan, has applied business.

What lipstick and powder blush on the business is that subway ride from her Riverside Drive apartment. Carol Fischman, a 27-year-old editor of trade publications who lives in Norwalk, puts on makeup while driving in stop-andgo traffic. lot of people do it," Fischman said. "I also see it in restaurants and in the office. A woman who got on the train one morning looking like death got off looking fantastic.

She told me she sometimes takes electric curlers with her on the train so that she can get an extra 15 minutes of sleep." White of Montclair put it this way: "It's an opportunity to spend time on me. It's a time for pampering myself." She said it was important to know the route, where the ride is smoothest and where the bumps are. How does she avoid injury from, say, an eye-liner pencil gone amok? "I don't fight the bus," she said. "I move with it." ARTS CRAFTS FESTIVAL AT LA FONDA SAT. SUN.

MON. MAY 28th 29th 30th From 10am to 6pm FREE ADMISSION Information: 982-3135 Thompson will have gift to a scholarship fund of the national Santa Fe. The Friends of' the Library a visit early in June organization in her name. organization at the college will hold its their reunion to be the annual used book sale for the public at that three young grand- years service to AAUW time. Citing her for of Church of and the community, mention is given of Episcopal the her work It will be followed by on many committees, including Robert Olds, chairman of the sale, Thompson home.

an assignment to the education foundation reports that members of the sponsoring program and as secretary of AAUW in group have worked through the winter Molly and Nina, Santa Fe. categorizing and packing thousands of four, two and one, are It is noted that books which have been donated for the she was a school teacher parents Michael and for worker sale. A members-only sale will be held. many years, a on behalf of all from from Coatsville, Pa. 4 to 6 p.m.

Friday during which time Dr. Katie teachers, and a volunteer in civic causes. Thompson After local new members will be welcome to join the husband Dr. Stephen she earned allowed Friends on payment of the $10 dues. Tom receiving a AAUW scholarship, the house credentials which her join party to head the Santa Fe High School Library Moore is president of this CSF library Maine.

Among others and the De Junior School supporting group. the church will be Val Vargas High Library, from which she retired in 1984.. cookbook Constance Boggs, Since Something new for collectors sisters in Santa Fe. job of scheduling Gov. Garrey Carruthers' is Rosalea Murphy's Pink Adobe Cookbook, February she has had the full-time official time.

newly Dell Publishing Compahas been named grant ny. An autograph party has been schedthe Santa Fe branch uled for 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday at Lestat, 136 Association of University Book lovers will find plenty of books to Grant Ave. to the organization browse through from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

honor provides a $500 Saturday in Alumni Hall of the College of Calla Hay lives in Santa Fe. Etiquette doesn't allow comments about the age of a man's companion Dear Miss Manners: professional my divorce have found that I ionship of bright en in their 30s. Some of my women of about of me for choosing ladies in my Recently my (39) told me lectured by two "wasting time with had been given analyses involving I am a retired gentleman of 59. Since several years ago, I enjoy the companprofessional wom- friends, mostly my age, critical "kids" instead of own age group. current companion that she had been of her friends for an old man" and pop-psychology father images.

American society, a holds that there incorrect, even imromantic attachman of 59 and a for that matter, 29? for an older man to within, say, five I believe that younger men from explicit and Do you see any There are probarationales; pop answers for evactual source of friends' complaints from annoyance generation fails to references and grievance that they to find romance as gentlemen lady's friends smarting from a is etiquette's is etiquette's unsolicited curiosity and advice about other people's choices are rude. So is all that emphasis on age. We are supposed to judge people as individuals, not as representatives of their age groups. However, if you want to discourage this, you had better stop yourself regarding your romantic possibilities as repre-' sentatives of a decade, rather than individuals. The position that you prefer "women in their 30s" is offensive, even, perhaps especially, to the ladies themselves, who won't always be in their 30s.

Saying, "I can't understand why you don't like Lisa she's really an interesting woman, and she told me she'd love to get to know you better" would silence any friend who attempts to classify the lady merely as a 39- year-old. Dear Miss Manners: When you are the host of a small party, what is the proper way to greet guests at the door? A) You see a car in the driveway and begin working your way to the door, so you can welcome your guests at the porch. Or b) you see the car but wait for the doorbell and then head for the door. How many times should you let the telephone ring before hanging Miss up? I've always gone seven to 10. I can't understand people who call and give only four rings.

Usually I just get from my bedroom down the stairs to the kitchen, and the phone stops ringing. (Feel free to suggest a phone upstairs, but my parents object.) When you go to a neighbor's door, how many times should you ring the doorbell? If you hear commotion in the house, but no one answers the door after a minute or two, are you supposed to assume the occupants didn't hear you, or that they're hiding, or that they are getting dressed and you should wait? Dear Reader: Before going to a neighbor's house, ring the telephone bell. It is easier for them either to get dressed or to head. off your visit that way. Expected guests can easily be greeted on the first ringing.

If not, they are allowed two or three very widely separated rings and one knock in case the bell doesn't work. Driveway greetings indicate extreme impatience and should be reserved for sorely missed loved ones; other people just get rattled, thinking they must be late. As for telephones, yes, let them ring for a while. Few people are waiting by their telephones just in case, and unfortunately those aren't the people who get the calls. The ones in the bathtub do.

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